Showing posts with label temperament. Show all posts
Showing posts with label temperament. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Temperament and Your Child
Temperament is a fascinating subject. I love learning and talking about it to parents because it provides self-awareness; parents gain understanding of their personal behavior as well as their childrearing style.
Knowing about temperament also assists parents, educators, childcare professionals, counselors, therapists, and health care providers who can use this insight to improve understanding of and relationships with children.
Nine categories of temperament traits were identified by researchers Drs. Chess and Thomas.
1. Activity Level:
The general drive of motor activity. Is your child very busy and quick moving or does he have a more relaxed, sedate style?
2. Regularity (also called Rhythmicity):
The predictability of daily functions and how kids organize their behavior. Has your child achieved a biologic rhythm for behaviors such as eating, sleeping, using the toilet or is he unpredictable and random?
3. Approach/Withdrawal:
The initial response to new stimuli. Does he tend to hesitate and shy away from new people or things or is he outgoing, social, and excited by novelty?
4. Adaptability:
How easily a child adjusts to changes or transitions. Is your child a “creature of habit” who resists transition or one who readily “goes with the flow?”

Monday, February 7, 2011

Inappropriate Behavior?

Some children are always happy-go-lucky, while others are grumpy. Some are hesitant in new situations while others run with open arms. Some kids complain when the sun is too bright or a clothing tag is touching their neck, while others hardly let you know when they are hurt. Challenging? Yes! But, this does not mean their behavior is inappropriate.

In your daily discipline, it helps to understand something about each child's individual style. Temperament is an inborn, distinct style of responding. Wise parents and childcare providers consider each child's temperament when disciplining. It just might make a difference in your daily discipline too.

I encourage you to read my article
, Tune in to Temperaments at the Mommy Perks website.
I'd love to hear your thought. You can leave a comment below or email me at speaker2parents at juno.com.
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